phases in shades of pink...

Life is complicated. It not only comes in various colors but in various shades of each color. Black and white appear at opposite extremes of the spectrum and in between are all the different shades of colors. Thus, hot pink would be funky, lively and energetic while a rose white would symbolize a more serene, peaceful and pure environment. My life therefore, is colored in shades of pink.

Monday, October 11, 2004

On Hands and Knees

As you walk along the path you have chosen, you come to realize that the path is not as straight or as smooth as it first appeared to be. You wonder if you have chosen the wrong road. But once chosen, you can’t change paths until you arrive at the next set of crossroads. Staying on the rough road however, enables you to come out stronger than before…more prepared for future bumps, which will inevitably appear.

The funny thing is, you wonder why those roads aren’t of the best quality…why they have bumps that seem so absolutely unbearable at times…and the potholes and cracks just seem so big…so intimidating.

But then, it really is a matter of perspective. Coming from a past with smooth, broad paths makes the deformities on the road appear even worse than they really are. But that’s how life is and will be: constant toils, troubles and difficulties to deal with…like a never ending midnight, black with no sign of any lights. We can only deal with problems in the best way we believe possible.

There come times in life when you say and do things you don’t mean, causing more potholes. Many times these fiery darts end up piercing someone else’s heart, leaving them hurt…perhaps forever scarred, as not all scars from these darts heal.

This is life. Walking along a bumpy path, while trying to dodge fiery darts that constantly seem to be flying straight at you is not an easy task; and no one should have to do it alone. In the end, the one who was with you all along the way, the one who never left your side, the one who took the fiery darts for you, is truly your friend: someone willing to go with you all the way to the end…even on hands and knees.

3 Comments:

At 11:01 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

erm...preety cool...blog..n thanks.....for always being thr..but ive got a question..wat if tht dart..tht once..left a scare on u....comes back into ur life..n needs ur help?...do u ignore it...or accept it...back....if u...ignore it...wats the dif between the dart n u..wats ur opinion on that???

`sid

 
At 12:06 PM, Blogger daenielle said...

Well, first i just want to clarify that the dart i was talking about, is actually referring to actions and words, and not to people.

'What happens if a person who caused the scar comes back into your life and needs help'. Is that your question?

I think the first thing to do would be to put yourself in the person's shoes and view the situation from their perspective. Would you want to be forgiven and given another chance? I know i would.

Then again, we all make mistakes, right? So isn't it right to be given another chance? This is of course assuming that the 'mistake' was not intended and the person did not try to hurt you. If they did, well that's a different story.

I think you know my conclusion. I would give the person another chance. Then of course, i like to live in a peaceful atmosphere, so i try to maintain good relationships with people. Well, I hope i answered your question.

 
At 10:03 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

This piece really put everything into perspective for me. Talking to you really helped me in a obscure way. I suppose having to say things makes you realise that you know things that you never really knew you actually knew before this.

God bless,
David.

 

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